The beginning of a new school year is an exciting time for kids and can be a stressful time for parents especially for divorced parents attempting to co-parent. Many questions arise concerning visitation, expenses and even the first day of school. These are all things that need to be discussed prior to the first day. During the summer, kids schedules are more flexible because they do not have to go to school and there are less activities to worry about. When school starts, that all changes. The best thing you can do is to review your custody and visitation agreement at the beginning of the year with your Salt Lake City child custody attorney.
If the divorce was recent, the children’s classmates may have some questions. They key is to stay positive and show a united front even if you do not care for each other. You still have to co-parent and provide a healthy environment for your children. If your schedules permit, both parents should make the effort to be there for the first day of school. This can be an emotional day for your child it is important to be there for them. Both parents will need to communicate effectively for this to be a positive and memorable day.
When it comes to your child, school expenses are still shared amongst the parents and need to be discussed and arranged far in advance of the first day. It will need to be divided evenly for example one parent buying the backpack and shoes while the other buys the teacher’s supply list. If you need assistance you can also have shared expenses divided by a Salt Lake City child custody attorney. This establishes a set guideline to follow each year. As your children grow their interests will also change.and you will need to adapt. This includes things like parent-teacher conferences. You should make every attempt to attend and if you cannot attend in person, try to phone or video in. this not only shows your child that you are there for them, it also shows teachers that the child has a good support system on both ends. If one parent cannot attend, the other is required to take detailed notes to share.
When establishing visitation and custody many couples forget to include school and the activities that come with it. The most overlooked aspect is school supplies. Leaving this out of the agreement can cause disagreements down the road. Money is a major issue in most marriage and can be an even greater during co-parenting when it is not established by a Salt Lake City child custody attorney. They will help you establish the new schedule and who will pay for what. These are things that should not be left until the last minute.
When it comes the family law and social security disability, each client and case is different. It is also important to select an attorney with the experience, skills and professionalism required to address your legal issues. To learn more, contact the Salt Lake City law offices of Melvin A. Cook and schedule an initial consultation to discuss your case.